Living With HIV for 15 Years: What I Have Learned, Loved, and Loathed

Living With HIV for 15 Years: What I Have Learned, Loved, and Loathed

This narrative traces Henry’s journey as a person living with HIV, offering a profound exploration of the emotional, physical, and social dimensions of his experience. Henry shares his experience of discovering his sexual identity and the eventual acceptance of being queer. Henry was diagnosed with HIV in 2006 and his story touches upon the challenges faced during the seroconversion period, reluctance to start antiretroviral therapy, and his subsequent health struggles. Henry also reflects fifteen years post-diagnosis on the dual nature of HIV as both a gift and a curse, acknowledging its impact on their perspective and relationships. He encourages others to be proactive in their care, emphasizing the advancements in HIV competency in the medical, political, and social spheres. The story concludes with a powerful message of self-compassion, urging individuals living with HIV to be good to themselves and recognizing that HIV is a condition, not a death sentence. In a health narratives class, this story could be used to delve into the multifaceted aspects of living with HIV, from the initial shock of diagnosis to the ongoing management of the condition. It offers insights into the importance of community support, mental health services, and proactive healthcare in navigating life with a chronic illness. Additionally, the narrative could serve as a platform for discussions on stigma, disclosure, and the evolving landscape of HIV in healthcare and society.

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Sandy Briden: Dignity in Dying

Sandy Briden: Dignity in Dying

Sandy Briden, a 57-year-old chemistry lecturer and scientist from Twickenham, London, shares her personal journey with a rare and incurable form of cancer called sarcoma. Diagnosed in December 2015, Sandy underwent a major operation, briefly experienced remission, and returned to work. However, in August 2016, doctors revealed inoperable tumors, making her diagnosis terminal. Sandy opted for palliative chemotherapy and was able to witness her son's wedding and her granddaughter's birth. However, Sandy advocates for the option of assisted dying, viewing it not as an end to life but as a means to live without the constant fear of a painful death, allowing her to say goodbye peacefully. The website reports that Sandy passed away in 2017, though it does not give details of her passing. 

This can prompt discussions on topics such as end-of-life care, assisted dying, and the emotional aspects of facing a terminal illness. It gives valuable insight into patient autonomy, the role of medical interventions, and the ethical considerations surrounding assisted dying. Students can explore the emotional and ethical dimensions of healthcare decisions, fostering critical thinking and respectful dialogue on sensitive topics related to death and dying.

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John Close: Dignity in Dying

John Close: Dignity in Dying

This narrative is written by Lesley Close, John's sister. In 2001, at age 53, John was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease. By Christmas 2002, he required full-time care, unable to stand, swallow, or communicate without assistance. John expressed a desire for assisted suicide, seeking a death that was peaceful and dignified. Lesley supported his decision, finding comfort in knowing he had control over his final moments. John's death was facilitated by a barbiturate overdose. Reflecting on the experience, Lesley wishes there was legislation that would have allowed John to have his death at home. 

Teachers can use John's story to explore the complexities of end-of-life decisions and the role legislation plays in providing individuals with choices. This story also touches upon the role that personal stories can play in persuasion around policy and legislation, as John’s physician later testified that his experience caring for John changed his own views. Students can engage in debates surrounding assisted dying, considering both moral and practical aspects, and examine how personal narratives can challenge or reinforce theoretical perspectives.

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Heather McQueen: Dignity in Dying

Heather McQueen: Dignity in Dying

Heather McQueen, deeply affected by her mother Sheena's inhumane death from terminal cancer, has committed herself to advocating for legal changes surrounding end-of-life choices. Sheena endured a rare form of anal cancer and faced the intense physical toll of radiotherapy, leaving her with third-degree burns. As her health deteriorated, doctors discovered a stomach-blocking tumor, eliminating treatment options. She spent her final week in the hospital, unable to return home due to the discomfort of the ambulance trip. Heather believes that at that point, her mother should have had the right to choose to die. Heather reflects on her mother's life and expresses her resentment to the legislation that denied her mother the right to a dignified death. 

This narrative can assist a class in unpacking the impact of legislative choices on individuals and families. Discussions can include the role of advocacy in shaping public opinion and influencing legislative changes. This narrative provides an opportunity for students to examine the complexities of patient autonomy, compassion in healthcare, and the potential consequences of restrictive end-of-life care options.

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Am I Too Old for This?

Am I Too Old for This?

In this article, a 65 year old writer discusses her experience of publishing a debut novel amidst a youth obsessed industry saturated by social media trends and an increasingly online market. DeBare shares her thoughts on the recent skyrocketing of the term “debut” to describe novels, and how it has different implications for someone at the beginning of their career vs someone retired. She grapples with imposter syndrome and looming mortality, and shares lessons she has learned from the blindly hopeful dreams of her youth clashing with sobering reality. Finally, she offers an inspiring, accessible vision of writers that breaks free of the glamorized 30 Under 30 stereotype. This article would be useful as discussion material in a creative writing class, particularly for older adults. Outside of its specificity to novelists, this could be helpful in a sociologically focused class or any class that deals with public perceptions of age and ageism. It could be used as part of a larger unit on the way aging is viewed in a variety of professions. It might even be helpful for premed students who are looking to work in fields where they will have primarily older patients to gain empathy and understanding of the different life paths of their patients.

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The Mustache

The Mustache

This short story follows a teenager straddling the precarious line between adolescence and adulthood, Mike, as he visits his grandmother in an assisted living facility. He discovers that she thinks he is her late husband when she tries desperately to get him to forgive her for a past wrong, while Mike is bewildered at such a raw view of someone he previously only thought of as a distant relation, not her own person. This would be useful for a class discussion on dementia and its effects on family members, as well as the residential care industry itself. It might be a particularly important resource for training healthcare workers to work with the elderly in these kinds of facilities to better understand nuanced experiences of both those who live there and those who visit. Courses on aging more generally could also easily incorporate this as a prompt for discussion or writing reflections.

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Meet Marleah: Testing positive for the BRCA2 gene at 25

Meet Marleah: Testing positive for the BRCA2 gene at 25

Marleah’s health narrative comes from the CDC.gov website. She discovered she had the BRCA2 gene mutation at age 25. Marleah discusses her navigating the challenges of motherhood while considering surgery after completing her family. She chose to manage her breast cancer risk through frequent screenings and lifestyle choices rather than opting for preventive surgery. Inspired by her mother's own battle with breast cancer and her own gene mutation discovery, she became a university professor specializing in hereditary cancer research. Her work focuses on understanding the emotional impact of genetic uncertainty and developing strategies to help individuals cope. The narrative highlights the complexity of decision-making in genetic disease management and underscores the importance of personalized approaches. 

This narrative could be used to explore the intricate decisions patients face when managing a genetic disease, specifically a BRCA2 gene mutation. Marleah’s story highlights the complexity of decision-making in genetic disease management and underscores the importance of personalized approaches. As a mother, Marleah faced certain ethical dilemmas when it came to decisions about her own health. This story could also be useful for those who are forced to make similar decisions.

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Jessica’s story: “It isn’t just dementia that’s a terminal diagnosis – life is”

Jessica’s story: “It isn’t just dementia that’s a terminal diagnosis – life is”

Jessica delves into her experience grappling with the possibility of inheriting familial Alzheimer's disease, a rare, inherited form of the condition. Jessica shares her decision-making process, including participation in observational research, contemplating genetic testing, and the emotional impact of receiving the test results. The story not only highlights the unique challenges faced by individuals with a genetic predisposition to dementia but also sheds light on the complex ethical and emotional considerations surrounding genetic testing. Jessica learns she does not carry the gene, leading to a mix of relief and survivor's guilt. The narrative concludes with an insightful reflection on the importance of embracing life regardless of a terminal diagnosis and offers support to those facing similar decisions.

Students can analyze the emotional, ethical, and practical dimensions of genetic testing, exploring the author's motivations, challenges, and the aftermath of receiving the results. The story prompts discussions on the broader implications of genetic testing, including family dynamics, reproductive choices, and coping with survivor's guilt.

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Mackenzie: My Faulty Gene

Mackenzie: My Faulty Gene

This narrative tells the story of Mackenzie, who, from a young age, was actively involved in raising awareness and support for Huntington's Disease (HD) due to its prevalence in their family. Mackenzie's mother, grandfather, and aunt had all been affected by HD, prompting a personal decision to undergo predictive genetic testing at the age of 18. Contrary to expectations, Mackenzie tests negative for the HD gene, leading to a profound shift in life plans and a reevaluation of personal goals. The narrative explores the complex emotional aftermath, including feelings of being lost and survivor's guilt. Despite the challenges, Mackenzie discovers a renewed purpose in advocating for the HD community and gratitude in the knowledge gained through genetic testing.

Students can analyze the challenges and opportunities presented by genetic testing, exploring the impact of results on personal identity, life goals, and community engagement. The narrative also raises important ethical considerations surrounding predictive testing and the potential psychological effects on patients. 

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My Abortion is Not a Sad Story

My Abortion is Not a Sad Story

Ebony Wiggins shares her personal experience of having an abortion at 22. She provides insights into the circumstances, decision-making process, and emotional aspects surrounding the event. Growing up in a politically aware household, the narrator emphasizes the importance of choice, destigmatizing abortion through storytelling. The narrative discusses the impact of restrictive abortion laws, particularly on women of color. This narrative can prompt discussions on individual autonomy and the influence of societal and political factors on reproductive health care.  Wiggins' story also shows the importance of diverse perspectives in understanding reproductive health issues. It serves as a case study for examining the intersectionality of reproductive rights and the potential impact of legislation on different demographic groups.

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